“Something’s Not Working—and I’m Not Sure Why”:

A Professional’s Guide to Passenger to Pilot

Hi—I’m Stephanie, founder of Passenger to Pilot.
I’ve spent over two decades in senior leadership, mentoring professionals at every stage—
from ambitious analysts to seasoned CEOs.
And here’s what I’ve learned:
You can be smart, committed, and valued—and still feel stuck.
Passenger to Pilot is a space for people like you: thoughtful professionals who want to make change, but aren’t sure where to start. You’re not lost—but something isn’t sitting right.

 

Who this is for

You might be:

· Working hard but feeling undervalued or unseen —despite positive feedback

· Receiving recognition, but not the progression, pay, or space you hoped for

· Managing overwhelm, self-doubt, or burnout behind the scenes

· Unsure if you want to stay, pivot, or leave—but afraid of making the wrong call

· Wanting to be more strategic—but still seen as the dependable “doer”

· Balancing a career and life that both feel too full—but not necessarily fulfilling

· Realising you’re outgrowing the version of yourself that got you here

· Feel like you're undervalued, but over-functioning

 These aren’t problems. These are signals.

You’re not broken.

You’re just ready for a new kind of leadership—your own.

Themes I See Again and Again

· Self-doubt in high performers – "Everyone thinks I'm more capable than I am."

· Doing without being seen – “I’m relied on constantly—but not being progressed.”

· No space to think – “I’m always on—but never feel strategic.”

· Invisible emotional load – “I hold everyone else—but no one’s holding me.”

· Loyalty fatigue – “I like my team. I like the work. So why do I feel so done?”

· Fear of leaving (or staying) – “What if I’m just trading one kind of stuck for another?”

· Drifting – “I didn’t plan to be here. It just happened.”

 If you’ve ever said something like this in your head (or to your partner, or in the car)—you’re not alone.

What We’ll Work On

Together, we’ll clear the noise and create forward movement with structure, reflection, and practical support.

Expect to explore:

· Clarity on what you want now—not just what made sense 10 years ago

· How to reframe your role as strategic—so you’re seen and heard at the right level

· Building a case for promotion, a pivot, or a meaningful pause

· Confidence to take up space—without guilt, bravado, or burnout

· Tools for managing energy, time, and people—without resentment

· Exploring options safely—so you don’t stay stuck just because it feels safer

How I work

I’m not here to push you into a big leap before you’re ready. I offer structured thinking, honest challenge, and grounded support—so you can make smart, sustainable moves that feel right for you.

· I listen carefully

· I ask the questions you’re avoiding

· I reflect back what you might not be seeing

· I help you take deliberate, well-paced action

I work one-to-one, online or in-person, and we shape the journey together.

You don’t need a “goal” to start.

Just a feeling that something needs to shift.

 

In Their Words

  • “Working with Stephanie gave me clarity I didn’t realise I was missing. I came in feeling stuck—constantly praised but never progressed—and left with a renewed sense of control over my career.

    She helped me shift long-held assumptions, reconnect with what matters to me, and see that I don’t have to trade ambition for balance. Together, we explored what was really holding me back, challenged the outdated beliefs I’d been carrying for years, and created a values-based framework I now use to guide every career decision.

    Stephanie’s support extended beyond just my role at work—she helped me reflect on what success looks like for me as a leader and as a parent, navigating the juggle with greater confidence and less guilt.

    For the first time in years, I feel empowered to make choices that honour both my ambition and my life outside of work—knowing I have the insight, experience, and support to move forward with purpose.”

    — Senior Programme Manager, Global Professional Services

  • “"I came to coaching feeling completely wrung out. I was performing well on the outside, but internally I was questioning everything—my place, my value, even my decision to stay in the industry.

    Stephanie created space I didn’t realise I needed. She helped me see that I wasn’t failing—I was carrying too much, for too long, in a system that didn’t always support me.

    We didn’t ‘fix’ everything overnight, but I stopped spiralling. I started making clearer decisions, pushing back when it mattered, and—most importantly—finding the part of me that still believes in what I do.

    For the first time in a long time, I feel like I’m back in the driving seat.”

    — Director, Financial Services

Ready to Stop Waiting?

You’ve done the hard yards. Now it’s time to make it count.
Whether you want to progress, pivot, or just pause and regroup—
Passenger to Pilot gives you the tools, space, and clarity to move forward, on your terms.

Fees start from £150 per hour, depending on the type and length of support.
I’m happy to talk through what might work best for you.
Want to talk about where you are and what you need?
Let’s start with a conversation - book a 15 minute free discovery call. No pressure. Just clarity.